Our America

What an emotional day for me!  As long as I can remember, I've been a sucker for the American flag, for the National Anthem, for the Pledge of Allegiance, for all things USA.  Our family always celebrated the 4th of July with great zest, but I'm not sure what sent me over the edge with patriotism.  Just like any other form of love, it defies full explanation.  Just yesterday in church, as strains of "God Bless America" lifted to the arched ceiling, I found myself choking with emotion as I struggled to sing along through tears.  What a corn ball, eh?  Maybe, but I cherish that feeling, the uncontrollable devotion, that spirit that moves so freely, so joyfully, so purely.   Now, don't get me wrong.  My ultra patriotism does not include blinders.  Yes, America has her problems, and I exercise my precious freedom by voting, by writing, by speaking up when I feel moved.  Of course, I owe it to my fellow Americans and to the privilege of voicing my opinion to do so with informed intelligence, respect, consideration, kindness, and grace.  Nothing flies in the face of true American spirit like sarcasm and nastiness.  Anyone can come up with an empty,  stinging insult, but stating one's case with poise and logic and the willingness to listen to others...that takes time and effort and real concern for making a difference, for improving a situation, not just getting our way.  How about if we celebrate this INDEPENDENCE DAY with a pledge to cast our very valid and lively debates in the steady strength of American unity and the daunting challenge of reasonable compromise.  After all, as so many often point out, "This is America!"  Why yes it is, and that means everyone has a voice and should at least feel heard, whether we like the opinion or not.  Therein lies one of the most difficult yet vital aspects of democracy.  We've overcome so many obstacles in this storied history we honor  today.  No reason we cannot do it again and again and again.  Deep inside I know we will.  Much love, my sweet country.  Happy Birthday USA and many, many more!!